Your Mileage May Vary is an advice column offering you a unique framework for thinking through your moral dilemmas. It’s based on value pluralism — the idea that each of us has multiple values that are equally valid but that often conflict with each other. To submit a question, fill out this anonymous form.  The questions I tackle in this column usually come from strangers. But this time, the call is coming from inside the house.  My partner is due to give birth to our first baby any day now. An