The Way I Climax Ended My Marriage. Now I’m Worried It’ll Tank My Next Relationship, Too.

How to Do It Women really don’t like this. July 26, 202612:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Alexandr Muşuc/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’m a 60-something straight male who is single. One of the issues that broke up my marriage was my inability to finish. I enjoyed sex, but could usually only finish on my own, and in a particular way. I can only attribute this to how I started, solo, when I was 12 or 13. I’d bunch up sheets underneath myself with underwear on and thrust against the sheets. Weird kid, I guess. Now I’m hesitant to try to start