The Innocent Question Men Ask in Bed That’s Secretly Ruining Everything

Three words, asked with the best of intentions, at the worst possible moment. A survey of 20,000 women by sex education platform OMGYES found that “Are you close?” ranks as one of the top orgasm-killers in heterosexual sex. Not because partners asking it are malicious—most aren’t—but because of what the question does to a woman’s…