The Guy I’m Seeing Is the Best I’ve Ever Had in Bed. But the Catch Has Become Impossible to Ignore.

How to Do It I want more than this. Aug 12, 20261:18 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, My guy friend and I don’t have a label for what we are, which is OK with me. If I had to put one on us, it would be friends with benefits or lovers. I once truly loved and cared for him very much and know he felt the same for me. For reasons I won’t get into, we can’t be together in a traditional relationship like before. After we broke up the last and final time, we had a long talk about how our friendship is very important, and