Six Years Ago, I Indulged My Husband’s Biggest Fantasy. Now It’s Eating Me Alive.

How to Do It Just once I’d like to do anything else. July 25, 202612:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photos by Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I have something I’ve been trying to wrap my head around for several years now. I (straight woman, 38) have been with my husband (straight man, 36) for eight years. Shortly before we got married, he admitted he thought wearing my panties would be sexy after a few drinks one night. I’ve always told him I’m open to anything sexually as long as it only involves the two of us, so I was open to him wearing my panties