Care and Feeding July 06, 20266:00 AM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here. Dear Care and Feeding, I have two children with my ex-wife: “Anthony,” age 11, and “Briana,” age 7. Something happened to “Carolina” shortly after Briana was born, and she basically lost all interest in Anthony. She wasn’t physically abusive, but “forgot he was there” a lot of the time, and was plainly uninterested in anything distressing him. It was bad enough that we went to marriage counseling over it, and I filed for divorce shortly after she expressed to our couns