My Mom Refuses to Let Go of a Contentious Moment From My Childhood. It’s Making Us All Miserable.

Care and Feeding How many times can we rehash this? July 27, 20266:00 AM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Jacob Wackerhausen/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here. Dear Care and Feeding, My mother and father are in their 80s. They’ve been married for over 50 years. Their relationship has had ups and downs, but they have always worked things out. My grandparents were from different religions, and most of my extended family is pretty devout. Both my parents became atheists when they were in college. My parents are losing their memories and filters over the last few years. They d