Dear Prudence How can we continue now that I know this? Advice by Jenée Desmond-Harris Enter your email to receive alerts for this author. Sign in or create an account to better manage your email preferences. Unsubscribe from email alerts Are you sure you want to unsubscribe from email alerts for Jenée Desmond-Harris? July 11, 20268:00 AM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. Dear Prudence is Slate’s advice column. Submit questions here. Dear Prudence, I’ve worked as a daycare provider for many years, and when I first started in this field, one of my first co-teachers and mentor “Ashley” quickly became one of my closest friends. Fast-forward six ye