My Houseguests All Disrespect Me in the Same Infuriating Way. My Husband Is Taking Their Side.

Care and Feeding July 22, 20261:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photos by Getty Images Plus. Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here. Dear Care and Feeding, We own a home in a lovely part of the country and often host family and friends. I take pride in my house and have spent a lot of time, money, and energy decorating—including the guest bedrooms, which have nice bedding and linens. Think Pottery Barn display bed with layers of decorative shams, throw pillows, and blankets, none of which were cheap. The problem is my guests. I don’t know how to deal with adult guests who leave my guest room in a shambles: pricey throw pillows on the floor or folded in half and used for sleeping (after extra sleeping pillows were offered