Dear Prudence He’s setting himself up for disappointment. Advice by Jenée Desmond-Harris Enter your email to receive alerts for this author. Sign in or create an account to better manage your email preferences. Unsubscribe from email alerts Are you sure you want to unsubscribe from email alerts for Jenée Desmond-Harris? July 07, 20266:00 AM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Artit_Wongpradu/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. Dear Prudence is Slate’s advice column. Submit questions here. Dear Prudence, I am a gay man in my mid-30s, and I’m engaged to a wonderful man who is truly amazing in every way. He recently told his parents that we are engaged, and they did not take it well a