My Daughter Has All Kinds of Advantages in Life That My Boyfriend’s Kids Don’t Have—and It’s Going to Stay That Way.

Care and Feeding Aug 24, 20266:00 AM Photo illustration by Slate. Photos by Getty Images Plus. Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here. Dear Care and Feeding, I am divorced with a 10-year-old daughter. My ex makes a lot more money than me, so my daughter has had a lot of opportunities, including private lessons and private tutors. She has been out of the country several times, and her grandmother has taken her to both Disney resorts. This has become a problem with my partner, “Mark.” Mark is a single father of three and works a blue collar job. He makes a good enough living, and his idea of a vacation is a drive to the local lake. I love Mark. He is down to earth and very kind. But sometimes he will make these digs about my