Care and Feeding July 04, 20262:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photos by Vladimiroquai/iStock/Getty Images Plus and ISerg/iStock/Getty Images Plus. This is a newsletter bonus question. Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here. Dear Care and Feeding, My wife “Stephanie’s” brother “Drew” recently watched our 9-year-old son “Henry” for the week while we had to take our 6-year-old daughter out of town for a medical procedure. When we returned, Drew said we owed him $1,900! The reason? He thought it would be fun to teach Henry to drive his new SUV in a parking lot. Henry got too close to a light post and tore off the driver’s side mirror and scraped up the door. When Drew told us this story, I told him we could call it a fair