My Boyfriend’s Mom Has a Strangely Invasive Habit on the Family Vacation. I’ve Had Enough.

How to Do It This doesn’t feel right. July 16, 202612:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Alex Anna/Unsplash. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, My boyfriend, a 30-year-old man, and I, a 29-year-old woman, have been together for three years. His family has an annual tradition where everyone—so his parents, my boyfriend, and his three brothers and their significant others (if they’re in a relationship)—goes to their family beach home for a month every summer. This will be our third summer at the house. For some context, we come from very different backgrounds: I grew