My Boyfriend Made a Devastating Confession About Our Relationship. It’s on Me to Fix This.

How to Do It Sept 04, 20261:00 PM https://compote.slate.com/images/d482fef1-d395-4b70-bfcb-8c79456ee725.gif Our advice columnists have heard it all over the years—so we’re diving into the How to Do It archives to share classic letters with our readers. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. (It’s anonymous!) Dear How to Do It, My boyfriend and I have been together almost four years now. Just recently, we had a conversation where he confessed that he “didn’t feel in love with me anymore.” I was absolutely devastated, but we talked some more and both said that we wanted to stay together because we do love each other. However, I feel I am the problem in this relationship. I am very inexperienced in the bedroom compared to him and that has caused us to have a very “vanilla” sex life.