My Boyfriend Is Hopping on a Particular “Sex Trend” for Men. Uh, This Isn’t Going to Work for Me.

How to Do It I want to support him, but it’s not going well. July 30, 202612:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Leks_Laputin/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I, a 25-year-old woman, have been dating my boyfriend, “Alec,” a 26-year-old guy, for almost a year now. We have a great relationship, and I really love him, but… He’s quitting jerking off. That’s a dumb thing to have a problem with, right? Well, Alec and I dirty talk at least twice a week over the phone since we don’t live together yet. I’m a very high sex drive person, and I don’t really