My Boyfriend Dumped Me When I Lost Weight. Now I’m Dealing With Something Far Worse.

How to Do It Men run for this hills when they see this. Aug 30, 202612:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by ugis bralens/iStock/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. Dear How to Do It, Years ago I wrote in asking about what I should do regarding losing weight and my boyfriend’s attraction toward me changing. He liked me fat, I needed to lose weight for health reasons, and I was worried he might lose interest. I lost the weight and he did, in fact, end up leaving me. He directly cited my weight loss as a major factor. Anyway, I am now writing in for a related but different reason. I have an issue with the extra skin left over from the weight loss. I haven’t had sex in three years