My Boyfriend Can Afford Lavish Gifts and Extravagant Vacations. So What He Gives Me Instead Feels Like an Insult.

Dear Prudence He’s the textbook example of a perfect man … except this. Advice by Jenée Desmond-Harris Enter your email to receive alerts for this author. Sign in or create an account to better manage your email preferences. Unsubscribe from email alerts Are you sure you want to unsubscribe from email alerts for Jenée Desmond-Harris? July 22, 20266:00 AM Photo illustration by Slate. Photos by Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. Dear Prudence is Slate’s advice column. Submit questions here. Dear Prudence, I’m a 38-year-old woman, and I’ve been in a monogamous romantic relationship with “Oliver,” who is about my age, for eight years. I love him with all my heart, and all my friends and