My husband and I stumbled into Imago therapy early in our marriage. We were both open to therapy because we knew enough to know what we didn’t know. He came from a divorce, and I came from witnessing parents who were married for 48 years but continually had the same arguments over and over again. We didn’t want to repeat those mistakes.  Imago rewired how I think about communication. It was developed by Harville Hendrix and its premise is that every relationship we enter is an unconscious attemp