I Want to Take a Trip for My Milestone Birthday. But I Want to Leave Two Important Family Members Off the Invite List.

Care and Feeding Someone needs to put their foot down. Aug 31, 20266:00 AM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Taras Grebinets /Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here. Dear Care and Feeding, My partner lives with my 15-year-old son and me. He has two daughters in their late 20s. I love him, but one of the reasons I don’t want to get married is because his daughters are lazy leeches. Both failed out of college, can’t keep a job, and are constantly calling to “borrow” money from their father. I don’t understand it since he and his ex were first-generation immigrants who put themselv