I Think My Boyfriend Is Secretly Using His Issue Downstairs Against Me. Let Me Explain.

How to Do It Is this possible? Aug 25, 202612:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by yuriyzhuravov/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’m a 26-year-old woman dating a 28-year-old man. A few weeks ago, I had my waist-length, naturally dirty-blonde hair cut to a layered bob and dyed what I think is a beautiful silvery gray. I didn’t discuss it with my boyfriend ahead of time because I was set on it and knew he’d just be against it. His reaction was about what I expected, but he got over it after a few days, or so I thought. But every single time we’ve t