I stopped parenting my 5 kids when they went to college. It changed our relationship.

Fiordaliso/Getty Images I chose not to monitor my children's college grades or emails. Letting go helped them develop independence and responsibility. Now I'm supporting them through adulthood instead of managing it. When my children enrolled in college, I decided to step away from supervising their education. I would no longer keep too close an eye on their grades or class performance. I confess that it was a selfish decision, but as the mother of five, I'd already spent too many hours…