Pay Dirt July 06, 20261:02 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Getty Images Plus. Pay Dirt is Slate’s money advice column. Have a question? Send it to Kristin and Ilyce here. (It’s anonymous!) Dear Pay Dirt, My bachelorette party is coming up, and one of my main concerns with it was that I didn’t want to feel like I was asking too much of my friends. I settled on having a party in my city that will include a few hours at a spa, an activity, and a group dinner. Guests could buy their spa passes on their own and I told them in advance how much the activity would cost. But as the day approaches, I’m getting worried about dinner, specifically the bill. How should we split it? I thought it might be simplest to pay for the whole meal on my card, divide it equally, and then Venmo-request my