I’m This Close to Getting the Sex Room of My Dreams. My Wife Has a Frustrating Objection.

How to Do It It’s the perfect time to do it. Aug 12, 20261:45 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, My wife and I are empty nesters now that our youngest has moved out of state for her first “adult” job at a major tech firm. We have always been into BDSM, and I think now would be the perfect time to convert one of the kids’ old rooms into a sex dungeon. My wife, however, is against the idea, citing that she would not be comfortable doing anything sexual in a room that belonged to our kids. Can you give me some suggesti