I’m heartbroken after my lover went back to his wife… I don’t think I will ever get over him

DEAR DEIDRE: NOW that my lover has gone back to his wife, I know I need to forget him . . . but I can’t. Thinking of them together is killing me and I resent the fact he gets to play happy families while I nurse a broken heart. I’m 39 and he’s 46. For the past four years,...