I’m Figuring Out How to Get My Kids Through the Divorce. But One Part Haunts Me.

Care and Feeding Sept 05, 20268:00 AM Photo illustration by Slate. Photos by PeopleImages/Getty Images Plus and Antonio_Diaz/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here. Dear Care and Feeding, My wife and I are in the process of divorcing. We separated, and she moved out. For a year or so, we went to counseling (at my request), and she moved back in. Now, six months later, she has moved out again and filed for divorce. I have realized at last that no matter what I did on my end, trying to correct my “mistakes” that she brought up in counseling, she had no interest in staying married to m