The author is raising her two children in the Hamptons. Courtesy of Vanessa Gordon I'm raising my kids in the Hamptons as a single mom, and it isn't easy. I have to grocery shop out of town, and I've cut my kids' expensive activities. I'm not going out as much anymore to save money, but I'm making it work. I live in the Hamptons year-round, and I understand why people think summer here looks glamorous from the outside. There is the much-anticipated season for those who come to visit: the rush