I’m a Lesbian. Now I Want to Try Something Specific—With a Man.

How to Do It I’m not sure anyone will be into this. Aug 13, 202612:16 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’ve never been sexually or romantically interested in men, beyond a handful of surface-level, intellectual crushes. Here’s the issue. I’ve dabbled in kink to some extent—mostly as a service top to more dominant women—but recently, I’ve been fantasizing about having a domme persona, despite generally being somewhat reserved in my personal life. The thing is that I’d like to try dominating men (with women, I’d rat