I Had Sex With a New Guy. What He Did Afterward Was a First for Me—And Not a Good One.

How to Do It Things immediately took a turn. Sept 03, 202612:27 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by azndc/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’m a 45-year-old single, gay man in a smallish Midwest city. I just got back from a hookup where I had fun, but it took a weird turn at the end. I’m generally not into anal, so I list myself as a side on the apps. Tonight, a hot guy struck up a conversation with me, said he’d love to find a friends-with-benefits situation (which I am down for and is in my profile), and asked if I was up for receiving oral. I sai