I Had a Great Date With a Promising Man. Then I Found the Things He’d Written Online.

How to Do It Well, this is doomed. Aug 05, 202612:30 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Olga Yastremska/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I went on a date with a beautiful man from an app. He was up for sex right away, which was tempting and flattering, but I wanted to wait a little. Mostly because I have been ghosted after hooking up with someone before and wanted to make sure he wanted more. I would have insisted on condoms until/unless we became exclusive, but we never actually got to that point. He took it well and gave me his socials so we coul