I Finally Confessed My Secret Attraction to My Husband. He Thinks I’m Just Covering Up Something Bigger.

How to Do It He couldn’t be more wrong. July 29, 202612:45 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by prostooleh/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’m a 38-year-old woman who was raised in a very conservative household. Growing up, I was very attracted to several of my classmates, all girls, but I knew that my attraction would go over badly, so I never really acted on it. Then I met this guy in college; we started dating, it didn’t work out, and I dated a few more guys. One of them did work out. “John” is an amazing man, the love of my life, and we’ll be ha