I can’t stop comparing my fun-sized fiancé to my big-boy ex

DEAR DEIDRE: MY fiancé is a better man than my ex. He has a bigger heart and a much bigger personality. So why do I keep comparing his average-sized manhood to my ex’s nine-inch monster?  I’m 34. Five years ago, I had an on-off relationship with a younger man I met online. We had nothing...