Victoria Lee Jones created a man cave for her toddler. Courtesy of Victoria Lee Jones Victoria Lee Jones, 37, is a contractor, interior designer, and single mom in Brooklyn. When Connor outgrew his crib, Victoria designed him a toddler man cave to encourage independence. She lined the walls with inspirational decor to remind Connor that he can pursue his dreams. This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Victoria Lee Jones. It has been edited for length and clarity. As my son Connor