I Brought Someone New to Our Home. My Partner Immediately Recognized Him, and Banned Me From Ever Seeing Him Again.

How to Do It I hate ultimatums. Aug 19, 202612:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Jacob Wackerhausen/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, My nesting partner (a 45-year-old man) and I (a 43-year-old man) are poly. We’re kitchen-table, and I recently introduced a new partner (a 45-year-old man) into the mix. NP went pale when he saw him. Turns out my new partner relentlessly bullied him all through middle and high school. He wants us to break up and has made it clear that he will never accept him as a metamour and wants nothing to do with him. When I