How to Tell If You’re Trauma Dumping or Just Venting

You won’t find the term “trauma dumping” in a psychology textbook, but it’s gained popularity online to describe the act of unloading overwhelming feelings onto someone else without their consent. It’s like an extended, one-sided version of venting, says Cheryl Groskopf, an anxiety and trauma therapist in Los Angeles. It’s also treated as one of the worst social sins you can commit—which can make people afraid to talk about their grief, trauma, or anything else too painful to package neatly. Yet social support is one way people cope with hard experiences. Conversations about tough topics don’t have to be concise, comfortable, or perfectly balanced to be healthy.“It’s not about not talking about problems,” says Stephanie Mahalec, a therapist in Los Angeles. “Talking about problems is a very