Help! I Found Out My Husband Was Having an Affair With His Boss. Then the Unthinkable Happened.

Dear Prudence Aug 03, 20266:00 AM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Pressmaster/Getty Images Plus. Our advice columnists have heard it all over the years—so we’re diving into the Dear Prudence archives to share classic letters with our readers. Submit your own questions to Prudie here. Dear Prudence, Recently, I discovered my husband had been having an affair with his boss, “Laura.” Then a week ago, he died unexpectedly. I never got the chance to confront him about the affair, and my grieving process has been complicated by my sense of betrayal and because I’ll never get the answers I’m desperate for. I’m focusing on caring for my two young children. Laura began a fundraising campaign without consulting me, not that I would have taken a call from her in the first place. I can’t deal wi