Getting Laid Is So Easy After My Divorce. But Now There’s a New Problem.

How to Do It Aug 16, 20266:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Getty Images Plus. Our advice columnists have heard it all over the years—so we’re diving into the How to Do It archives to share classic letters with our readers. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. (It’s anonymous!) Dear How to Do It, I just got divorced after a marriage that ended miserably. Sex went away, then she started sleeping with a neighbor. She skipped the therapy, and eventually moved out. Now I’m in a new world. My 18-year-old self would never believe how easy it is to get laid. The third date rule has gone out the window. Dates are cut off in order to go home together. One woman drove across the state and invited herself into my bed. The version of me that spent his 20s drinking up the courage