A Mystery Happens Every Time I Have Sex. Men Feel Really Bad When They Find Out.

How to Do It This is really holding me back. July 21, 202612:15 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by AntonioGuillem/Getty Images Plus. Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I have a friable cervix (cervical ectropion) and have bled from having sex since I started over a decade ago. I’ve tried everything: different dick sizes or a modest dildo, waiting a week to a month between, changing hormonal birth control types, condoms or without, loads of lube, nothing particularly wild (5 to 20 minutes of penetration), or piercings. My OB-GYN is not the most helpful in the sense that s